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Buddhability

Why I Appreciate My College Rejections

Buddhability

SGI-USA

Health & Fitness, Self-help, Self-care, Religion & Spirituality, Mental Health, Buddhism

4.9603 Ratings

🗓️ 3 May 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

When Ashley Park didn’t get into her first choice colleges, she was stuck in New York City balancing a jam-packed schedule. Buddhism teaches that everything moves in the direction of our happiness when we chant Nam-myoho-renge-kyo. 

 

With that in mind, Ashley knew there must be a reason and used her Buddhist practice to discover it. Today, we discuss how winning in every area of your life leads to your ultimate growth and happiness. 

 

References:

Discussions on Youth

Aug. 14, 1998, World Tribune, p. 9.

 

Cheat Sheet:

03:55 Why Ashley started practicing Buddhism at age 16

16:29 Tackling doubt after college rejections 

35:27 Buddhism is about winning

40:00 How she landed the perfect job

47:37 Why her path was exactly what she needed to become happy

Transcript

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0:00.0

From SGI USA, I'm Cassidy Bradford and this is Budability.

0:07.9

The weekly series where I talk with Buddhists from all walks of life about the power we each have to change our lives and the world around us.

0:25.3

Sometimes when I wake up, I just roll back over.

0:27.5

I don't want to think about the full day ahead.

0:30.7

I might dream of a totally empty schedule.

0:40.5

But when that open time comes, after maybe a day or two, I start to feel restless. Of course, rest is important,

0:45.5

but Buddhism teaches us how to make the most of every moment, regardless of our schedule.

0:51.0

Through chanting Namyo Hōren-Ga-Kyo, we tap into our bootability, which is the limitless wisdom, courage, and compassion inherent in all life, including ours.

0:56.3

As I chant about how to spend my time, I can start to see my capacity very clearly,

1:01.3

so it's much easier to make the most out of my time, whether it's taking an evening to catch up

1:07.7

on a TV show or hitting the gym with a friend. Because it's all about

1:12.1

perspective, we asked you to name something you appreciate about having a full schedule.

1:17.8

Many of you enjoy being busy because it makes you feel like you're making the most out of your

1:22.4

time and you're never bored. One person's comment in particular stood out.

1:27.8

They said, nearly each calendar item is a person who I may not otherwise have been able to meet.

1:34.5

I really love that reminder.

1:37.2

Each thing that's on my calendar has meaning to me.

1:41.2

And if we don't have a why for everything on our calendar, we can chant Namyo hō-honing

1:45.9

Kyo to see the purpose. And if you're anything like today's guest, you could find that a busy

1:52.0

schedule is what you need in order to see what you're really capable of. Today, I'm speaking with

1:57.9

Ashley Park of New York City about how to develop confidence in the causes we're making and make the path we're on the best possible route to our happiness.

2:11.6

I'm Ashley and I'm 23 years old. I work at a management consulting firm currently in a research institute, and I live in

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