Why He Ghosted But Still Watches Your IG Stories | Patti Stanger
Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark
Turning Point USA
5 • 9.5K Ratings
🗓️ 29 November 2025
⏱️ 77 minutes
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Summary
Modern dating feels like a full-time job—great first dates, real chemistry, and then suddenly… ghosted.
This week, I’m sitting down with the ultimate straight-shooter in love and dating: Patti Stanger. She’s a third-generation matchmaker and the powerhouse behind 'The Millionaire Matchmaker.' We break down modern dating rules, the biggest mistakes people make, and play rapid-fire red, green, or beige flag.
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| 0:00.0 | Is it okay for a woman to text first? |
| 0:02.1 | No. |
| 0:02.6 | I agree. |
| 0:03.5 | I agree and people think I'm crazy for this. |
| 0:05.7 | No, they'll tell me the same thing. |
| 0:06.6 | I'm a lunatic. |
| 0:07.4 | I'm at a step. |
| 0:08.1 | I don't know what I'm talking about. |
| 0:09.3 | It's biology. Masculine and energy knows I want that chick. I'm going for it. Get out of my way. Why might a guy seem hyper, super interested in a girl on the first day and then he goes? |
| 0:20.6 | He is a demon. |
| 0:21.8 | Red, greener beige flag. |
| 0:23.3 | He always watches your instant. seem hyper, super interested in a girl on the first day and then he goes. He is a demon. |
| 0:21.8 | Red, greener beige flag. |
| 0:23.2 | He always watches your Instagram stories, but he doesn't text you. |
| 0:27.0 | You were an option. |
| 0:28.1 | He's created you as an option. |
| 0:29.2 | He didn't ask you whether you want to be an option. |
| 0:30.8 | He's just like, oh, I can always have her. |
| 0:33.4 | Block him. |
| 1:00.6 | No. Block him. You ever have a first date that felt amazing? |
| 1:04.7 | Great chemistry, deep conversation, maybe even a kiss good night. |
| 1:06.7 | And then, poof, they disappear. |
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