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last set of questions well les, Leslie 46 says this.

She says, dating takes so much effort in time.

Time, I don't have anymore, like when I was in my 20s.

How can we make ourselves more excited about dating

and take away the stress and anxiety

from it being one more thing to do in our already busy day?

That's coming from Leslie, who's 46.

And right off the jump, I'm going to say, Leslie, I don't think maybe right now is a good time for you to date. It sounds like dating doesn't sound like fun to you, which I get it. Like there

are times that it just, you know, life is too complicated, or you are still recovering from a breakup or hurt,

and you're just not available because dating should be exciting.

Dating should cause a little anxiety and a little bit of stress

and a little excitement, a little bit of, all these things.

And so if dating feels like it is a chore, if it feels like it's complicated,

I think it might be just your particular situation. And you may need some time to heal and

work through this. Because if you go into dating, if you go out on a date with somebody,

and it's not exciting and And it's not fun.

And you think of it as a chore.

It's not going to go well.

And I think that you're setting yourself up for failure at the very least.

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