Why 'Good Girl' Turns Some People On So Much

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Yes, No, Maybe Checklist: https://sexwithemily.com/swe-guides/SWE_YesNoMaybeChecklist.pdf In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily explores praise kink—the trending phenomenon where sexual arousal comes from receiving verbal affirmation and approval during intimacy. She breaks down how this differs from simply enjoying compliments and connects to deeper psychological needs for feeling worshipped, special, or desired. The episode introduces core erotic desires—the fundamental feelings we seek during sex that stem from our experiences and shape what turns us on. Whether involving feeling powerful, nurtured, transgressive, or humiliated, understanding these desires is crucial for sexual satisfaction. Through listener questions, Emily tackles complex dynamics: a man missing the intense connection with a kinky ex despite his fiancé's willingness to participate, a woman who shut down after an embarrassing bondage moment, and someone questioning fantasies about their partner with others. She normalizes these experiences while offering practical communication strategies, including her "Yes, No, Maybe?" checklist for exploring new sexual territory with partners, and emphasizing that sexual fantasies and messy moments are normal parts of intimacy. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 1:46 - Understanding Kinks vs Conventional Sex 5:14 - Praise Kink and Submissive Energy in the Bedroom 7:04 - How Praise Kink Helps with Body Image Issues 9:09 - Core Erotic Desires: What Really Turns You On 11:48 - Different Types of Core Desires (Worship, Humiliation, Power) 15:07 - Mining Your Fantasies to Discover Your Desires 17:07 - How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Fantasies 19:47 - Listener Question: Missing Kinky Ex vs Current Partner 24:42 - Listener Question: Embarrassing Moment Killed the Kink 30:34 - Listener Question: Is My Cuckolding Fantasy Healthy?

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0:55.7	When I say prioritize your pleasure, this is what I'm talking about.
0:59.6	Like asking for what you want and literally planning it and putting in the calendar
1:04.1	and making it a collaboration so it's not just about your needs, but you make sure that
1:09.0	your partner's needs are getting met as well.
1:14.7	You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure
1:19.9	and liberate the conversation around sex. Today we're talking about praise kink and how it can
1:24.6	flip the arousal switch for so many. We'll zoom out to core erotic desires.
1:29.1	The specific feelings you crave in bed, like being worshipped, powerful, taken care of,
1:34.1	or a little transgressive, and how to spot yours and your fantasies.
1:37.5	We'll also get practical how to ask for the turn-ons you want and give them back, how to bring
1:41.6	praise into your dirty talk without it feeling cheesy,
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