Why Does It Feel Right To Watch Their Every Move But It Is Not Helpful?
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 7 May 2019
⏱️ 33 minutes
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Summary
When the addicted has betrayed so many times, lied over and over how can the one who was hurt NOT watch every move with an all seeing eye? That is the first instinct much of the time but why is it not helpful? What does it do to the relationship? Listen as Brannon walks through this key crossroad of recovery with Coby and Ashlynn.
We are glad you found our season 2 episodes where we continued the journey of learning from more experts on so many topics that relate to relationships.
If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.
If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org
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To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com
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| 0:00.0 | All right, so we're going to answer the question of how is it that it feels right to watch his every move? |
| 0:10.1 | And how is that not helpful? Because it feels right. |
| 0:14.0 | What's up, Recovery Warriors? |
| 0:16.0 | Have you seen our Patreon site yet? |
| 0:18.0 | If not, you need to go check it out. |
| 0:19.0 | As you know here on the podcast, you get this content for free but over on Patreon it gives us the |
| 0:25.0 | opportunity to give you more interaction with us so that we can help you more in |
| 0:29.2 | depth so while you're listening right now go over hop on Patreon it's P-A-T-R-E-O-N and type in the Betray, the addicted, and the expert and you'll find us there. |
| 0:40.0 | Or you can click on the show notes to the link over to Patreon. |
| 0:44.0 | There's next level tools and resources there. |
| 0:47.0 | So we hope to see over there. |
| 0:49.0 | Now let's get on with the show. |
| 0:51.0 | We are so glad that you're here because you're choosing to thrive after betrayal trauma or addiction. |
| 0:56.5 | Hi, I'm Ashland, the once betrayed. |
| 0:58.5 | I'm Kobe, the once addicted. |
| 1:00.0 | And I'm Brandon the expert. Now why am I an expert? Because I've treated betrayal trauma and |
| 1:04.8 | addiction for over a decade. Okay, I'm going to share a review. This is called Pure Awomeness. It says this is the best |
| 1:15.4 | podcast on this subject I've heard so far. I love all these guys. They're raw |
| 1:19.8 | honesty in experiences really resonated with me. I feel like I wish I could talk |
| 1:25.6 | one-on-one with Ashland. You can by the way if you join Patreon, the intimate |
| 1:30.6 | access. We have a male therapist who is great but I'd really like to talk to a female who's been in my shoes, who really knows what I'm feeling. |
| 1:40.0 | I have no one else to talk to and I'm busting to vent because I think I'm on the verge of imploding. |
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