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Why does grief leave me feeling this way?

CrowdScience

BBC

Science

4.81K Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2021

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Grief is universal. It is something almost all of us will go through at some point. And it is something that the people we love will experience when we die.

Grief can be all consuming, it can make everyday tasks like getting out of bed, feel impossible. Which makes listener Oliver from Australia wonder - what is the point? It doesn’t bring what we lost, back.

Why have we evolved to be so affected by loss? Be it the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship or the loss of a job. Does it serve any purpose? Or perhaps it is just the price we pay for being a social species with such strong connections.

Image: Families Mourn Victims of The Tamaulipas Massacre in Tuilelén, Guatemala Photo by Josue Decavele/Getty Images

Produced by Caroline Steel and presented by Marnie Chesterton for BBC World Service.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Take some time for yourself with soothing classical music from the mindful mix, the Science of

0:07.0

Happiness Podcast.

0:08.0

For the last 20 years I've dedicated my career to exploring the science of living a happier more meaningful life and I want

0:14.4

to share that science with you.

0:16.1

And just one thing, deep calm with Michael Mosley.

0:19.4

I want to help you tap in to your hidden relaxation response system and open the door to that

0:25.4

calmer place within. Listen on BBC Sounds. You're thinking of a test, ditches.

0:33.0

A little bit of the same.

0:35.0

And you want a little, which is a way.

0:37.0

He must be a cell.

0:38.0

So this thing,

0:40.0

And that's not.

0:41.0

And that was not. stitches. This is crowd science. I'm Marnie Chesterton and that you might be surprised to hear isn't the sound of parties.

1:10.0

Those are funerals from across the world, complete with dancing in Ireland,

1:15.0

and celebratory coffin carrying in Ghana.

1:20.0

Some of you will associate funerals with something a bit more sad, like solemn ceremonies

1:28.4

here in the UK. of death we may pass to our joyful resurrection.

1:34.8

All funerals with hired professional mourners in China.

1:38.4

Though they differ from culture to culture, end of life ceremonies are a global phenomenon because we humans are united in one thing without exception, death.

1:54.2

And with death comes grief, the focus of today's show.

1:58.9

Crowd science exists to answer your science questions,

2:02.3

so let me introduce listener Oliver who wrote in baffled

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