Why do women flake on dates the day of even though they confirm?

Because they really don't want to see you.

That's the bottom line.

If they like you and they really want to hang out with you, they're going to keep the date.

But if they have low interest, that's pretty typical, actually.

If you make a date, the girl confirms it. You know, you make a date the girl confirms it you know

you make definite plans say three or four days in advance and then the day of like early afternoon

or like two hours before which they're famous for doing or maybe even an hour before you're

supposed to pick her up you get a call or text don't hate, but something came up or I can't make it.

I'm so, I'm really sorry to do this to you.

So sorry, very sorry.

Sorry to stand you up like that.

Not that they're going to say stand you up, but they usually tell you that they're sorry.

Oh, don't hate me, but they really didn't want to go out with you and women try to avoid conflict and confrontation.

And so they just put it off to the last minute because it's an unpleasant thing to do.

And because sometimes guys get pissed off.

And then they wait until like an hour before and tell you that they can't make it.

Or, oh, something came up. I'm tied up at work. Or, oh, my best girlfriend called me and she's really

distraught. She found her goldfish this morning, belly up in the bowl. And I got to go over

and comfort her and be there for her and so I hope you

understand we have to have a funeral for us tonight their goldfish was very very important to her

and some ridiculous oh it's like oh my my female cousin like I remember my one of my girlfriends

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