that minimists.

Why do we cling to unhappy relationships

and how do we let go of them?

I'm like the king of clinging to unhappy relationship.

I mean, not so much anymore,

but like back in the day,

I just like, there's a sense of security.

There's a sense of knowing the outcome.

So even though it's a pernicious relationship I would have,

at least I knew what was going to happen.

So there's all these like, you know,

you feel like you have a little bit of control

because you know the outcome.

You feel secure because you're not going to be throwing things

that you don't know of,

even if they're negative things that get thrown your way,

at least you know they're coming.

So I think that's a big piece of it.

And then there's that comfortable aspect to it, right?

Well, they always say the hell you know

is better than the heaven you don't.

Amen.

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