Welcome. Today we have a viewer question from Totally Average. And he asked, why do tiny little things, like not answering a question perfectly, lower her attraction level?

So he says not answering a question perfectly. So in other words, he's answering a question in a way probably that makes him look weak and unattractive.

One of the common areas where guys get themselves into trouble is that a girl starts

drilling him on past relationships and he starts sharing everything that's going on in his life

instead of just being like, hey, gentlemen, don't kiss and tell.

And not going down that road, being an open book, not asking her anything, or you end up

spending 80% of the date talking about yourself and your accomplishments instead of getting

to know who she is. And so the important thing, like I talk about in 3% man, is answering the kind of questions and doing the kinds of things that create attraction and facilitate romantic seduction, because that's what the guy is into.

And so you have to understand saying certain things, doing certain things around women, what turns them on, and what things

make them not want to have anything to do with you. And for most guys, because what they don't

realize and understand is attraction is not a choice. Mother nature is taking care of that. A woman

knows within three to five seconds that she'd sleep with you or not. And that's the bottom line.

Mother Nature has handled that.

And so when you meet a girl and she's physically attracted to you

and you're physically attracted to her,

she's open to the possibility of something happening.

And for most guys that don't know any better,

when they open their mouths and they start talking,

then they end up turning the

girl off and she loses interest her he's like he's a bitch i'm sure you guys have had that

experience you've met dudes and you're like wow he's really cute and then the more he talks you're

like oh oh yeah the um questions that are probably not the only thing that's bothering her.

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