Why Do Narcissists SNAP When You Leave Them?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 18 November 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
Why do narcissist experience **snapping** and **losing control** when you leave them? This video explores the dynamics of a **toxic relationship** when you leave a narcissist. Understanding why they act the way they do is key for your mental health.
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| 0:00.0 | Why do some narcissists snap when you end the relationship? |
| 0:05.0 | When the relationship is over, when you break up with them, when you, quote-unquote, discard them, |
| 0:11.0 | why do some of them snap and lose their damn minds? |
| 0:15.0 | That's the topic we're covering today, y'all. |
| 0:17.0 | Of course, if you're new here, my name is Lee Hammack. |
| 0:19.0 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist myself, and welcome to another episode of the Narcissusco. |
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| 1:18.2 | Welcome back, folks. Welcome back. Welcome back. Yes. Those pesky desky, toxic narcissistic people, |
| 1:27.7 | why do they constantly snap when the relationship is over, when it ends? Y'all, um, let's hop right into it. |
| 1:28.8 | The way my mind works. |
| 1:30.9 | I actually saw an article the other day, right? |
| 1:34.0 | It said leaving is the most dangerous time in a toxic relationship. |
| 1:36.2 | It was by Forbes on Forbes.com. It says toxic abusive relationships are about power and control. |
| 1:41.7 | And when you're leaving a toxic relationship |
| 1:44.4 | or you're trying to leave an abusive relationship, |
| 1:47.6 | you threaten the power and control |
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