Why Do Narcissists Blow Up Their Own Lives So Much?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 22 October 2025
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
A narcissist and self sabotage can go hand in hand. So, Why Do Narcissists Blow Up Their Own Lives So Much? When things are seeming to go so well, why do narcissistic people tend to do things that mess everything up.
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| 0:00.0 | Why? Oh, why do narcissists tend to self-sabotage and blow their damn lives up so much? |
| 0:09.0 | Why does it seem like soon as things start going well in the life of a narcissist? |
| 0:15.0 | When things start going well with a narcissist, they hit the damn self-destruct button and blow everything up |
| 0:21.7 | that's what we're talking about today y'all if you do here my name is lee hammock |
| 0:25.5 | i'm a diagnose narcissist and welcome to another episode of the narcissists code let's get Joe Wicks is on a mission. |
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| 1:42.8 | What is going on, beautiful folks? |
| 1:44.6 | But yes, why is self-sabotage so damn prevalent in a lives of narcissistic and or toxic people? |
| 1:57.3 | So, first off, narcissistic people tend to, like, we, imposter syndrome is real, y'all. |
| 2:06.7 | Like, we don't think we deserve what we get, while also sometimes feeling extremely |
| 2:14.7 | entitled at the same time. Don't let that go over your head. |
| 2:18.7 | We feel entitled to damn near everything. |
| 2:23.1 | Even if we have not earned it, |
| 2:24.8 | even if we don't have the qualifications, |
| 2:26.8 | even if we don't have their prerequisite knowledge for it, |
| 2:30.8 | we think we deserve it because we are us. |
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