All right, team, welcome back to the man talk show.

I am Connor Beaten.

And today we're going to explore an interesting topic, which is why men care about a woman's sexual past or sexual history and what most women get wrong about this question or at least don't understand.

And I don't say that last part to be condescending or ignorant. I say that because

genuinely I get messages all the time from women who are asking me. I don't understand why men,

why my boyfriend, why the men I date care so much about my sexual past. So we're going to talk

about this. Now the truth is that it's a complex topic. There's many different things that

play into it. But I'm going to try and break it down into something very simple, very tactical, and very tangible. Okay. And so here we go. We're going to start off with a very simple analogy. And ladies, I want to talk to you first. Before I do that very quickly, though, I want to hear from you. Let me know what you think. Did I miss something? Do you like the analogies? Do you think there's a better one? Do you disagree?

I'm curious to get your thoughts. Okay. So analogy number one, ladies, I want you to imagine for a moment that you have been dating your partner, your man, for four years or maybe five. And after about a year, year and a half,

you realize, you love this man. You want him to commit to you. You want to commit to him.

You want to get engaged. You want to get married. You want to take this relationship to the next

stage. And you start dropping hints. And then those hints become not so hinty, right?

Not so subtle. And they become more direct. And then eventually you just

have the all-out conversation of what are we moving forward? When are we getting engaged?

When are we getting married? Etc. And eventually, months go by and maybe a couple years go by.

And nothing happens. But finally one day after four or five years of dating, he proposes, you're excited and,

you know, you feel really good.

And a few weeks go by or a few months go by.

And you're having a conversation with one of his close friends or maybe a family member,

right, maybe one of his siblings.

And it comes out that he and his past relationships and his past major

relationships had proposed to his exes. Maybe there's three of them or four of them. And he had

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