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Why did my marriage end when Istikhara was positive

Mufti Menk

Muslim Central

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Islam

4.83.1K Ratings

🗓️ 1 October 2020

⏱️ 5 minutes

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0:00.0

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0:30.0

We don't know, you know the future, we don't know and we're seeking from your guidance.

0:34.2

If this matter is good for me, then make it easy for me and grant me blessings in it and so on.

0:39.4

And if this matter is bad for me, then turn me away from it, turn it away from me and then give me,

0:46.2

make me happy with your decree. That's basically what you're saying.

0:49.3

You call out to Allah in a specific way. For the details, you might want to check how to do that.

0:54.8

Actually, the dua and the istihara. However, there is no mention ever of dreams as a response to an istihara in revelation.

1:04.5

So, some people have suggested perhaps you get a dream, perhaps you might, that's not from revelation.

1:09.8

Okay? From revelation, read the meaning of that dua and you will know exactly what you've asked Allah.

1:16.1

You told him,

1:17.1

O Allah, if this is good for me, make it easy for me. If this is bad for me, block it from me.

1:22.2

So, when you've done the dua, what's the response of your istihara?

1:26.5

The response is on the ground. Either things become easier or certain signs show you that everything's being facilitated

1:33.9

or things are being blocked and stopped and there is an obstacle and another one and a third one and so on.

1:39.2

So, if it is made easier, you told Allah that if it's good for me, make it easy for me.

1:43.9

He's making it easier for you. And if it is not good for you, you told him,

1:47.8

if it's not good for me, keep it away from me. He has kept it away from you.

1:51.7

Why? Because you told him, if it's not good for me, my deen, my dunya, then keep it away from me.

1:57.4

That's why my brothers and sisters, when Allah has blocked something after you desperately wanted it

2:02.8

and you've made an istihara, that is the response of your istihara.

2:08.0

Istihara is not actually revelation from the heaven and people may make mistakes in interpreting exactly what it is.

2:15.2

So, if you really feel desperately for something, you can try a few more times.

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