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Under the Influence with Jo Piazza

Why Dads Get a Medal and Moms Get Judged—Parenting Double-Standards and Back to School

Under the Influence with Jo Piazza

Jo Piazza, Influence Inc.

Technology, Kids & Family, Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Parenting

4.3834 Ratings

🗓️ 26 August 2025

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

This week’s episode is part back-to-school survival guide, part summer highlight reel, and part investigation of parenting double standards. We reflect on the chaos and joy of crisscrossing the country on book tour with three kids, what we learned about road-tripping as a family, and why hiking with toddlers is best done with candy. Also why do dads traveling with kids get treated like heroes while moms get judged? Plus: the reality of childcare, the myth of “parenting experts,” and what it really takes to keep all the balls in the air as working parents. Join our newsletter community here. ORDER EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here. Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey all, Joey here and welcome to Under the Influence.

0:10.1

I guess this is kind of a back-to-school episode, but also maybe a recap of the entire summer

0:17.5

episode. It's going to be a lot of different things. And my guest today is none other than my lovely husband, Nick Astor.

0:24.0

Thanks for having me.

0:24.9

It's nice to be called Lovely, and it's such a treat to be on the show not once but twice in recent succession.

0:30.5

So this is cool.

0:31.4

Yeah, this is great.

0:32.3

I love having you here.

0:33.6

So we've had a busy summer.

0:35.5

I kind of can't believe that it's over. There was a massive book tour. We traveled all over the country.

0:43.9

We had an unbelievable summer. I mean, I could start listing bullet points. And I don't know how far I'd get. I mean, I'd need multiple pages. It's been very momentous.

0:53.5

And we did a lot of travel with the kids. But I mean,

0:57.0

I have to say, I think it's a good reminder that traveling with the children is not a vacation.

1:01.3

It is a marathon. And in hindsight, it was so rewarding and so awesome. And during it, it was exhausting a lot of the time.

1:13.0

Yeah. And I think, you know, we should reflect in our hindsight sometimes because there were

1:17.4

things that I wouldn't do again. But there were a lot of things I would do again, you know,

1:21.2

there were things that work. What wouldn't you do again? Well, you can only keep them in the car

1:26.6

so long for one thing. Oh, I think we've gotten better at that, though. I mean, when we first started traveling with them, we tried to do like five hours at a clip. And I think we're pretty good at not doing any longer than two now without taking a break. That's true. Stopping at playgrounds, the general, you know, not taking them to restaurants.

1:45.7

I mean, it's just universal that they're going to be bad, you know.

1:49.9

Yeah.

1:50.3

They're really, I mean, they're really awful in restaurants right now, just generally.

1:54.5

But also, they're not good at sitting still.

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