Dear young married couple, do you find yourself arguing with your sweet spouse on the way home from

vacation? Or on the way to vacation or maybe even while on vacation. We have definitely found

ourselves in that position and we know many of you have as well. Yes, we just got back from our annual camping a trip for the

4th of July. We go up in the mountains. And it's always a great time with family and friends.

And there are lots of opportunities for us to argue. And through the years, we've argued. And through the years, sometimes,

I would say we've gotten better at it. We've gotten better at it. We can quickly identify what the

hangups are now. But it was funny. You know, we jokingly arrived at camp. We were, I think,

the third family to arrive at camp out of like a dozen families. And we were setting things up and we were

starting to bicker and, and, you know, our cousins were joking and they're like, but they were

serious. And they're like, yep, we already had our own marriage counseling sessions. You guys go ahead and

have yours. And then as more of the cousins and siblings arrived, they were bickering and or they

would say, yeah, we already argued

on the way here.

And everyone, every single couple had argued either on the way there or while they were setting

up.

So because of this very common thing that we all do, it seems like, we thought, hey, let's

talk about this and let's analyze it and ask, you know, why do couples

argue?

Why on, we should be having just a great time, right?

Like, we're out in this beautiful place and now we're not working.

And why can't we just have no arguments?

Why can't everything just go smoothly?

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