Why Conflict Is Crucial For Any Relationship ft. Jayson Gaddis

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Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 21 April 2022

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

In today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Jayson Gaddis, dating expert and author of Getting to Zero: How to Work Through Conflict in Your High-Stakes Relation- ships. We discuss how conflict saves your relationship, distinguishing between love bombing and something real, why men always come back, how to know when couples counseling is necessary for your relationship, dealing with a partner who shuts down during fights, dating when emotionally unavailable, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I dis- cuss everything about The Ultimatum on Netflix.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.4	Hey guys, welcome back to We Minute Acme. I cannot wait for you here this episode today. Jason
0:11.8	Gattis is amazing and he has so much knowledge for you guys on how to go from conflict to connection
0:20.2	and relationships and just how important it is and how it brings you closer ultimately. And I know
0:27.2	you guys love our male guests and he's really so well spoken and I feel like it's hard to find a guy
0:34.8	who represents well on the pod at least and he's great. So I know you're going to enjoy it.
0:41.4	But before we get into that, we're going to get into some questions from you about things and but first
0:49.5	before anything, it's time to discuss the ultimate. I binge this show like no other. I didn't even
0:59.3	wait for Steven. I watched it while he was on a bachelor party. Savagely, I was just like, I
1:05.5	got to do it. It's for work, you know, quotation marks. I mean, where do we begin? So the show is by
1:12.6	the way, spoiler alert, feel free to skip ahead if you haven't watched it yet. The show is hosted
1:19.0	by Nick and Vanessa Lachet, which we also learned a lot about through the show apparently. But
1:26.0	it's about different couples who one of them has issued an ultimatum to the other. So they go to
1:32.8	wherever the fuck they are. I don't know. And they pair they see if anyone else from a different
1:38.9	couple would be a better match with them. I'm assuming they did some like background research
1:43.3	to make sure that everybody was compatible with everybody. If that makes any sense, maybe they
1:47.9	looked into astrology. I don't know. And I still need to figure out all their signs. So we'll get to
1:53.1	that. But all these couples, they date another person from a different couple. They see if they're
1:58.3	a better match. And then they go back to doing their original partner and then they decide if they
2:03.8	want to still be with the original partner. If they want to marry them or break up, which is
2:09.2	essentially what happens in an ultimatum. All right. So let's start with Alexis and Hunter.
2:16.4	So Alexis is the one that gave the ultimatum and they went on the show. And it seemed as if Hunter
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