Why Chasing Him Never Works - Benson Book Club

Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Violet Benson

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🗓️ 23 April 2026

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Stop chasing men who are not choosing you. If you keep overgiving, overthinking, and ending up with the same guy in a different body, this one’s for you. This week on Daddy Issues, Violet dives into the book Why Men Love B*tches and breaks down why men chase what they have to earn. It's all part of this week’s Benson Book Club.

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0:00.0	But when it comes to dating men, here's the one thing you need to understand.
0:06.2	Men are not rushing to grow up.
0:08.9	A man will enjoy and entertain the single life with no rush to settle down.
0:13.6	You can guilt him all you want about how he's too old to be playing the field,
0:17.1	how he's going to be the last one of his friends still in the club scene,
0:20.0	and watch how he doesn't give a fuck.
0:23.3	All men believe and trust in one thing.
0:27.9	The one day his game changer,
0:30.3	his dream girl,
0:31.7	will eventually come,
0:33.5	and that will be the day
0:35.0	they will change their ways and settle down.
0:37.3	So until that day comes, where he meets his game changer,
0:42.7	a man will continue to enjoy the ride with placeholders and nice girls, girls like you.
0:49.2	It's file events and your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for, but see.
0:54.6	Welcome to Daddy issues.
0:57.2	Daddy issues.
1:01.4	Are you ready?
1:03.2	Let's just say it.
1:04.4	Being the nice girl is the fastest way to get played in 26.
1:09.4	Nice girls don't finish last because they're nice.
1:12.2	They finish last because they're predictable.
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