Why Chasing After Being Dumped Leads To Frustration & Being Stuck In Limbo
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 26 January 2026
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhy you shouldn’t chase after you’ve been dumped & what to do instead.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who used my work to successfully attract his last girlfriend. However, over the past 2 years he regressed into the opposite of what I teach. He became reactive, got jealous, argued and make her feel unsafe. He got dumped, but has continued pursuing for another chance. They’ve hooked up a few times, but she says he shouldn’t get the wrong idea it will lead to anything. He asks my opinion.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:30.1 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter. |
| 0:34.3 | And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be, |
| 0:37.2 | why chasing after being dumped leads to frustration and being stuck in limbo. |
| 0:44.1 | Well, as I discuss in seven principles get an ex-back, |
| 0:47.4 | and for whatever reason you're dating a girl and you end up chasing her out of your life |
| 0:52.0 | or turning her off or she friends on you |
| 0:54.5 | or tells you there's no chemistry or something's missing or she lost that spark or she needs space |
| 1:01.6 | it means her attraction is dropped and you're pursuing too much and so as seven principles get an |
| 1:07.6 | expect says if she breaks it off and you want to stay together well you're |
| 1:11.7 | not going to try to keep somebody that doesn't want to keep you so you're going to tell her hey |
| 1:16.8 | hit me up if you change your mind and then you never call her text her again for any reason as long as |
| 1:22.0 | you live and if she reaches out after that you assume she wants to see you and you make the next date. |
| 1:29.0 | And then from that point forward, she's got to do all the calling, all the texting, all the pursuing. |
| 1:36.1 | She has to earn another chance with you, not the other way around, because she screwed it up. |
| 1:42.5 | She caused the relationship to end when you didn't want |
| 1:45.2 | it to, even though you display too much unattractive behavior. So by reading the book, |
| 1:50.4 | filling in your knowledge gap, and cleaning up your unattractive behavior, if she does reach |
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