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Seeing Other People

Why Are Married Men Flirting With Me & Other Mixed Signals

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2025

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

We're recording from Westchester while recovering from days of Thanksgiving meals and leftovers. We talk about having both of our families together for the first time and how grateful we are that everyone gets along so well. Jake shares an update on his injury, and we chat about supporting each other’s plans and giving each other space. We answer listener questions about mixed signals, married men who flirt,friendships changing, and the realities of navigating relationships in your 20s and 30s.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

All right, are you ready?

0:01.5

Ready, let's do it.

0:02.6

Let's do it.

0:03.4

Hey, guys, welcome back to co-hosts for Life.

0:06.4

I'm Alana.

0:07.4

Okay.

0:08.4

And we are very full.

0:10.5

I'm so full.

0:11.6

So, so full.

0:12.0

Like, we're halfway through, the gambit.

0:14.9

Oh, only halfway?

0:16.5

I mean, it's crazy.

0:19.9

It's Saturday pre-lunch, and that's important because lunch is going to be a big lunch, too.

0:27.2

I literally can't move.

0:28.5

There's no need for lunch to be a big lunch right now.

0:31.0

But it has to be.

0:31.8

Why?

0:32.6

Because it's Casa, and we have to eat Casa.

0:36.0

I guess.

0:37.2

So anyway, what do we do on Wednesday?

0:40.0

What did we do on Wednesday?

0:40.8

Went out for sushi with my parents.

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