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Stacy, welcome to the program.

Hi, thank you for having me.

Thank you.

What can I do for you?

So I have a big, I've always had this issue of second guessing myself, but I feel like I have a very strong personality and as of lately and I don't know if it's because I hit my 40s.

I've become like a softy and I hate that and I hate second guessing.

I don't know I just like to be very my personality is very blunt but lately at

work I tend to pull back and like second.

Okay, you have me totally confused.

First you're second guessing, which is terrible insecurity,

and then you're blunt, which is kind of assertiveness sometimes aggression so

how can all of those be in the same place at the same time I wonder?

Because that's me and I'm I think I'm just wrapped up.

Yeah.

Like for the second guessing, like that part, it's mostly at work,

if there's like an issue with one of the employees.

I'm a site supervisor for a medical office.

So if somebody feels some type of way if I how I handle something I always second guess

should I approach them or should I just let it go?

Normally I let it go.

You mean you don't have sufficient training?

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