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Dr. Laura Call of the Day

Why Am I Beating a Dead Horse?

Dr. Laura Call of the Day

Dr. Laura Schlessinger & SiriusXM

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4.46K Ratings

🗓️ 25 August 2022

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

Why Am I Beating a Dead Horse? - Carrie's relationship with her alcoholic girlfriend is over, but the worry she feels and thoughts of saving her continues. - Dr. Laura: "Holding on to unhealthy relationships helps you avoid the risk of not feeling needed." - What is holding you back from finding a healthy relationship? Email me your thoughts at: [email protected] | To participate on the radio program; call 1-800-Dr-Laura / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment - https://www.drlaura.com/make-an-appointment. Become a Dr. Laura Family Member: https://www.drlaura.com/ See https://www.drlaura.com/privacy-policy for privacy information.

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0:00.0

Thanks for listening to my call of the day podcast. You can hear my live radio program Monday through Friday from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern time on serious XM.

0:10.0

I'm 11.

0:11.0

Carrie, welcome to the program.

0:14.0

Thank you, Dr. Laura. Thank you for taking my call. You're welcome.

0:19.0

So my partner and I were together for seven years.

0:24.0

How old are you? How old is she?

0:27.0

I am 54. She's 57.

0:32.0

And before that, did either one of you have long, long term relationships or many short ones or what happened before this?

0:41.0

Yeah, we both had long term relationships.

0:46.0

And those ended because why?

0:52.0

Well, she is a high functioning alcoholic.

0:57.0

So I'm assuming that's the reason her previous relationship of 10 years ended.

1:04.0

And for myself.

1:10.0

That's a good question. Just just ended up growing apart. I wanted different things wasn't happy.

1:18.0

I said, didn't tell me anything. We always want different things.

1:23.0

We don't grow apart. We turn away and move away.

1:28.0

Doesn't happen. But anyway, so this breakup is because who broke up with whom?

1:35.0

So it ended up being a mutual decision in a based on based on what?

1:45.0

On her on her drinking and her not wanting to get help for her drinking.

1:52.0

So you expected that in a long term relationship ended because of her drinking.

1:58.0

So she would stop drinking for you?

2:02.0

Well, I was hoping that she would stop drinking for herself.

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