Why a Narcissist Always Returns After Discarding You
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 20 October 2025
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
Why would a narcissist come back after discarding you? Why would they end the relationship but not fully leave you alone and move on with their lives?
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| 0:00.0 | Boom. Why do narcissists almost always return after they discard you? Why do they keep coming back? |
| 0:10.2 | Why can't they just leave you the hell alone once they discard you? Like they are the ones |
| 0:18.9 | that end their relationship. They are the ones that leave you. They are the ones that leave you they are the ones |
| 0:22.5 | that break up with you or file for divorce or leave you for somebody else why the hell do they keep |
| 0:28.5 | coming back after they are the ones that ended it why that's what we're talking about today y'all |
| 0:35.5 | of course if you knew here i'm lee hammock i'm a diagnosed narcissist myself, and we just going to hop right into it. |
| 0:41.5 | I'm here to give you the inside look at the mind of a narcissist. |
| 0:43.9 | Sorry, yeah. |
| 0:47.9 | Got a comment right here. |
| 0:49.1 | It says, they need money, a place to stay, another round, the game of life, cheat |
| 0:53.3 | clapping, their side piece dumped them |
| 0:55.1 | and the other ones on vacation with her real boyfriend that cheated on you with your ex yeah yeah |
| 1:00.2 | so that right there could definitely happen right there could definitely happen what is going on |
| 1:05.3 | and what's going on jelisa what's up what's up what's up yes the main reason why a lot of narcissists and |
| 1:11.7 | toxic people refuse to leave you alone once they discard you is because they feel like you |
| 1:19.0 | belong to them you are mine I own you not me personally That's how the narcissist in your life thinks. They think that because |
| 1:32.5 | y'all have shared bodily fluids, y'all have dated, y'all have been in love before, y'all were married |
| 1:38.6 | or divorced or whatever the case may be. They think you are, you belong to them, that you have your ownership papers like your your your |
| 1:48.0 | driver's license if you flip that thing over on the back it says property of this narcissistic toxic |
| 1:54.7 | bastard that's what the back of it says the front has your name and address on it the back has all |
| 2:00.7 | of the other stuff on it right the back The back has everything else on it. That's what goes on right there, y'all. What's going on, Lisa? How you doing, girl? This is what goes on. I'm just telling you, they think that you belong to them. Just because I ended with you does not mean I am done with you it does not mean that I am finished with you it |
| 2:18.4 | does not mean that it's absolutely over it just means I'm pushing pause on this section of the |
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