Whose Story Are You Living? How to Take Back the Pen w/ John R. Miles | EP 684

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

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🗓️ 31 October 2025

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

What if the story you’re living… isn’t yours?

In this powerful solo episode of Passion Struck, host John R. Miles explores how culture, work, and media quietly script our lives — shaping what we value, chase, and believe we deserve — often without us realizing it.

Drawing on insights from Claude Silver (VaynerX Chief Heart Officer) and Nick Thompson (CEO of The Atlantic), John unpacks how the stories we inherit, absorb, and create define who we become — and how to reclaim authorship in a world that profits from your distraction.

You’ll learn why belonging isn’t the same as becoming, how the algorithms that shape your feed also shape your identity, and why the courage to rewrite your story might just be the most important act of your life.

This episode closes out our acclaimed series, The Forces That Pull Us — a month-long journey through the invisible forces that guide how we think, lead, and live.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing a role that no longer fits, this episode is your call to take back the pen.

Read the full shownotes here: https://passionstruck.com/how-to-reclaim-your-story/

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Inside, you’ll find reflections and prompts to help you uncover the cultural, professional, and personal stories that have shaped your identity — and begin rewriting them with intention.

🧠 About the Episode

Discover how culture, work, and media quietly script your life — and how to reclaim authorship.
Learn why belonging isn’t the same as becoming — and how to rewrite the stories that hold you back.
Explore how algorithms shape what we see and believe, and how intentional awareness changes everything.
Understand why authenticity isn’t rebellion — it’s reclamation.
Gain practical steps to audit your inherited stories and realign them with your chosen values.

Let’s Continue the Conversation

What story are you living right now — and who’s holding the pen?

Share your reflection on The Ignited Life, or post it on social using #TheStoriesThatShapeUs.

John will feature select responses in next week’s newsletter.

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0:00.0	Coming up next on Passionstruck, what if your entire life is being shaped by forces you can't see?
0:08.0	Not fate, not luck, something subtler.
0:12.0	The quiet gravity that pulls you towards purpose, the doubt that test your fate in it,
0:18.0	the intuition that whispers when logic runs out, the words that build trust
0:24.1	or fracture it, the culture that tells you who you're supposed to be. These are the invisible currents
0:31.2	that shape us, whether we notice them or not. They guide how we lead, how we love, how we create, and how we connect.
0:40.2	They define what we chase, what we fear, and what we believe we deserve. But here's the
0:46.6	paradox. The same forces that pull us can also free us once we learn to see them. So today, as we close, the forces that pull us series,
0:59.0	we're looking at the stories that shape our reality,
1:02.0	the cultural myths, the workplace identities,
1:05.0	and the media narratives that quietly decide who we become.
1:10.0	Because to live intentionally, you have to know which forces
1:14.2	you're following and which ones are quietly writing your story for you. Welcome to Passionstruck.
1:21.4	I'm your host, John Miles. This is the show where we explore the art of human flourishing and what it truly means to
1:28.4	live like it matters.
1:30.1	Each week, I sit down with change makers, creators, scientists, and everyday heroes to decode
1:35.4	the human experience and uncover the tools that help us lead with meaning, heal what
1:40.0	hurts, and pursue the fullest expression of who we're capable of becoming. Whether you're
1:45.4	designing your future, developing as a leader, or seeking deeper alignment in your life,
1:50.0	this show is your invitation to grow with purpose and act with intention. Because the secret
1:55.6	to a life of deep purpose, connection, and impact is choosing to live like you matter.
2:13.0	Hey friends, welcome to episode 684 Passion Struck.
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