This is a comedian Whitney Cummings.

I dated a professional athlete and I was like, well, why would you date me if like I'm the person you

date if you want like a challenge?

And he just went, why would any man want a challenge in their relationship? I thought it was like

hot to you I thought it was like what guys wanted who told you this who told you other

women it's usually other women justifying like when when it doesn't work out.

Girl you're just too strong for him. You just too strong-willed.

She wants a guy challenge.

Hmm. Interesting.

As a woman she wants a guy who's a challenge and this is a lack of empathy on a woman's perspective to just assume that what you want is what if I wanted what you wanted then I would want another dude.

Well I like it so everybody else must like it.

Men and women are the exact same that we're the same that we think the same way that we want the same things which is just not true

I'm not an alpha male I'm not a beta male either I'm just a better man better man

Dante we're always out there trying to find the information on the net to see, you know, what people are talking about. And it's not always just bad dating advice, but there's an... I like the female perspective on stuff so I want to show

you this video this is a comedian Whitney Cummings and she is some interesting

perspective here let me know what you think. Okay. I dated a professional athlete

great at what he does. There's not a lot of room for emotion to be involved. It's

either true or it's not true or you're gonna get your neck broken. He could

date whoever he wanted or sleep with whoever he wanted and we were like

arguing about something and I was like well why would you date me if like I'm the person you

date if you want like a challenge and he just went why would any man want a challenge in their relationship?

In that moment was like, oh my God, I thought it was like hot to you.

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