Which Voice Should You Listen To: Change Your Body, or Embrace It? – In Session with Marc David
The Psychology of Eating Podcast
Marc David
4.7 • 586 Ratings
🗓️ 1 May 2024
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
Chances are, you've had the experience of hearing conflicting voices in your head when it comes to food and body.
One part of us can clearly say: "I absolutely must lose weight."
While another part of us can simultaneously whisper: "I'm tired of dieting. Maybe I should just give up and love my body as it is."
And from here, an inner conflict unfolds.
On the one hand, we can find ourselves motivated to stick to a diet, get to the gym, and do everything we can to control our appetite. After all, we know how much happier we'll be when we hit our weight loss number.
But another part of ourselves can feel uncomfortable with making our happiness contingent on how we look. After all, shouldn't the goal be to unconditionally love and accept ourselves, no matter what?
This question of whether you should change your body – or embrace it – is something many of us are struggling to answer – and that Marc David takes on in this episode.
Marc works with James, 52, who has long wanted the body of his dreams: trim, fit and muscular like a lifeguard.
It's a bucket list kind of wish, a goal that James knows will make him feel a huge sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. He's even reached his dream goal several times, and has loved the feeling of having a fit, sculpted body.
But James is torn, because another voice inside just wants to love his body as it is right now, and feel like he's good enough without the need to change anything.
So, with all these conflicting voices living inside of his head, what should James do?
Tune in to hear Marc help James discover a way through the paradoxical journey of learning to love oneself amidst the desire to have a certain body. They explore topics of weight loss, body acceptance, emotional eating, and the path to greater self-love.
Episode highlights:
✅ The unexpected ways our inner critic can drive emotional eating, and weight challenges.
✅ Why we withhold self-love, and how to turn this around.
✅ Unwinding the negative belief that you can't have the life you want until you have the ideal body.
✅ Keys to satisfying the needs of our various inner archetypes, or "voices."
✅ And much more…
This is a powerful session that explores the many voices or archetypes that live inside of us, and how to empower these voices to become our best allies.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Psychology of Eating Podcast, where food and body challenges are the doorway into a happier, healthier life. |
| 0:11.3 | Now, here's your host, Eating Psychology Expert and founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David. |
| 0:28.2 | Thank you. Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David. Welcome, everybody. I'm Mark David, founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating. We're back in the Psychology of Eating podcast. |
| 0:33.7 | I'm with James today. Welcome, James. Hey, Mark. Good to be here. Thanks for having me. Thanks, |
| 0:39.5 | my friends. So here's the deal. If you're tuning in for the first time to the podcast, James and I are |
| 0:44.7 | meeting for the first time. And the idea is to have a session together and seeing if we can make |
| 0:50.5 | some good things happen in relationship with food and body. So, James, if you could wave |
| 0:55.5 | your magic wand and get whatever you wanted when it came to your relationship with food, body, |
| 1:00.7 | weight, what would that be for you? For me, that would be to number one, stop giving into |
| 1:07.9 | emotional eating. I have a lot, well, I'll answer this way to. |
| 1:14.8 | Me and my therapist have this alter ego that we, that's within me. |
| 1:19.2 | We call him Little Jimmy. |
| 1:21.7 | And Little Jimmy loves Friday night pizza parties with ice cream and pizza and all that junk food. |
| 1:31.4 | And whenever there's like an emotional trigger, he likes to come out and say, I need attention |
| 1:37.4 | and I need all that food. |
| 1:38.9 | So I would love to be able to find a way to tell little Jimmy that adult James has things in control. And adult |
| 1:48.0 | James can control and make good food decisions. And little Jimmy can come out to play |
| 1:54.4 | when it's when it's time. Right. So to be disciplined, to be able to tell little Jimmy that it's okay. |
| 2:03.9 | Because like I have a certain weight goal and we can talk about that. |
| 2:07.6 | But I know it's not forever. |
| 2:09.3 | I just want to be disciplined enough to lose this little bit of weight that I've struggled |
| 2:14.2 | with. |
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