So who are the people you should avoid in life the people you should cut out of your life the so-called friends

We're gonna end up backstabbing and betraying you the dates. You should never go on or not stay on for long

The marriages that should never have even started because they weren't

With people that are pretty much how do we say it without being rude not very good people?

I think all of us have experienced

one form or that or another and

I just got back from Vegas got back here to head quarters in LA and

Somebody was asking me this forget who we were we got on this subject because there's so many crazy people in Vegas

Somebody was like we're all the good people at and I remembered what a very smart scientist and researcher Dr. David Buss told me

When he spoke at my conference last year. He said tie the most cutting-edge research in

Social in the social sciences and and psychology shows you need to look for something called emotional

Resilience so the opposite of emotional resilience is emotional instability now for you and I this not only applies to how we

Decide who we want to be friends with business partners with date and all those things

This also applies to ourselves how to improve our own happiness and

So imagine it like there's a line here. Here's where you are like normally when you're not stressed. You're just kind of normal and

then

Sorry

We just set up I just set up a little soccer thing out there play soccer

I was my brothers stop by he's playing soccer

the

Baseline of how you are normally when you're not stressed when you're not super happy when you're not

Super sad. Let me try to set this up so it's a little more stable. I need like my arm on something instead of a tripod

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