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It's one of the most heartbreaking things for a couple to go through and that is

the discovery that one of them has been struggling with pornography. And if you

or someone you know is facing that very situation, this episode of the show is

going to give you some hope. I'm John Fuller joined by my focus colleagues Aaron

and Greg Smolley and Greg. Both of you work with couples you've heard from

so many about this kind of a struggle. What are some of the commonalities of

that? I think instantly someone can feel very unsafe, very insecure in their

relationship. They may feel betrayed like in you know in ways that you know

you've betrayed the fidelity that I have expected. I think there's a

suspiciousness that can happen like okay if now I just found this out or you

didn't even mean to tell me but I found out what else is going on. So I think it

makes them doubt some of the things that they were trusting and believing in

counting on. I think that someone can feel instantly not good enough. What is

it about me? Am I not pretty enough good enough? Like what is it about me that

would cause you to go look at pornography? Can be angry especially at the

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