Twas a night in November at your pal's Christmas party when an elf arrives.

Oh, with a toffee night latte!

Hey everyone, who wants a Starbucks?

Ooy! Same one for me!

Get the group together for Starbucks festive favorites. It's IRL season.

At a Starbucks near you.

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Coming up on marriage today with Jimmy and Karen.

Karen Evans treated me better than I deserved and she's redeemed me a thousand times in her marriage.

She's come after me, she's done the right thing when I was doing the wrong thing many times and I've redeemed

her too. I always like to say there's two sides to every marriage and you

definitely have issues as much as your husband does but what I did is I've asked the Lord to change me. Let me talk about the five main choices that we have when our spouse hurts us.

So there are five basic choices. So your does something your spouse says something and I know you all have good marriages I mean you're here at a marriage conference you're teachable people and so you're here to kind of tune up your marriage. But even in the best marriages we still

say things from time to time that hurt each other. We do things that we shouldn't do.

So how are you going to respond? This is the question. When your spouse does something

that hurts you and you don't like, how are you going to respond?

Let me give you the first choice.

Rightiously responding to our spouse in an honest, loving, and timely manner.

In other words, your spouse does something that you don't like and you walk up to him

righteously and say, honey, can I talk to you for just a minute?

I love you.

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