When Your Soulmate Becomes Your Ex

LOVERS by Shan

Lemonada Media

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

5.0 • 5.7K Ratings

🗓️ 18 February 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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In this episode, I talk about the 10 soulmates we may encounter over the span of our lives. Thanks for being patient with me this week on this episode. Promise to do better!Here are the 10 types of soulmates.The Stranger Soul Mate - unrequited love is still love. We needed them, we loved them, we were certain we were destined to marry them and they barely remember our last name.The black hole Soul Mate - the person that we lost ourselves and our sensibilities to (usually our first requited soul mate experience)The Almost doesn’t count Soul Mate - the person who checked all the boxes but couldn’t light your fire (or vice versa)The Only If They… Soul MateThe Stay with you Forever but Stay Away From Me Forever Soul Mate - the person you’ll never truly be over even though it’s definitely overThe one that got away - the good guy/ girl who you blew it with and now they’re happy with someone elseThe Rip Tide Soulmate - the relationship that preys on your needs, insecurities, weakness’ and fears.The prototype Soulmate - the person you are so sure is your one but upon further inspection you realize is just a beautiful imposter who taught you what you really needed to know about what you need out of loveThe Muse Soulmate - the person who’s meant to teach you about love/ connection, but not give it to you (usually a crush you never get a shot with)The Love of my Life soulmate- the relationship that allows you to be your best self and love at a higher frequency. A love marked by self insight, happiness, individual growth and true mutuality.Thanks to the sponsors of this episode!Babbel!Http://www.babbel.com/loversBumble: Download the Bumble app today for free!Hello Fresh!Http://www.hellofresh.com/loversFollow Shan:http://instagram.com/shanboodyhttp://tiktok.com/shanboodyhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qngloversfriendspodcast@gmail.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	What's going on, lovers and friends? Welcome to the podcast called The Same Damn Thing I just said,
0:05.3	hosted by yours truly shamboodram. Here we talk about sex, love, relationships, and dating.
0:11.0	And speaking of relationships, the most important one around these parts is the one that we share
0:15.0	with each other. And in order for a relationship to thrive and survive, it needs accountability
0:19.5	and it needs communication. So I have to tell you guys that I apologize for being inconsistent with putting these episodes out. My intention is to put them out Tuesdays at 9 p.m. Eastern time, midnight, if you're on the West Coast, but that doesn't come to fruition as often as I would like it to. And I often have
0:40.2	very good excuses for that, just giving birth or kids being sick, traveling. And in this particular
0:47.6	case, it's kind of a mix of everything along with the fact that Valentine's Day is by far
0:52.3	the most overwhelming time of year for me
0:55.2	when it comes to the work that I do. Now I'm very grateful for that because in years past,
1:00.3	Valentine's Day was extremely overwhelming for very different reasons.
1:04.4	I tried so hard in that situation. I didn't matter. It just didn't work.
1:11.6	And obviously right now, I'm single because you know you can't do this.
1:17.6	When you're ready to love and meet somebody else, you gotta be way past this point.
1:21.6	And I'm like six months, you know, it's still kind of fresh and give myself a couple more months more.
1:32.8	You know, I'm really ready to meet that next person, but I still have, I'm healing to do for what that did.
1:35.0	That is an excerpt from a video that I put out February 14th, 2015, which I titled The Truth
1:41.0	About My Love Life.
1:42.2	And in that video, I was in essence trying to make sense of the fact that up until that point,
1:47.6	I had experienced multiple, strong, impressionable, powerful loves that I perceived to be soulmates.
1:54.3	However, I was also aware that none of those people were my person.
1:58.7	And I was just talking about the various connections that I had had.
2:02.1	And in essence, that's what this episode is truly about. How do you make sense of your soulmate,
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