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The Minimalists

When Your Partner Owns Too Much

The Minimalists

Joshua Fields Millburn

Finances, Home & Garden, Leisure, Mental Health, Minimalism, Contribution, Passion, Minimalists, Health & Fitness, Decluttering, Philosophy, Health, Relationships, Growth, Simple, Society & Culture

4.711.2K Ratings

🗓️ 7 May 2021

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Joshua and Ryan discuss how to best address a partner's tendency to hoard. Listen to the full episode on Patreon: patreon.com/theminimalists

Transcript

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0:00.0

Dominimists.

0:02.0

How do you handle when you're enough is different from your partners enough?

0:07.0

Here's the thing.

0:09.0

Your enough is always going to be different from your partners enough.

0:12.0

Even if your, yeah, your backs and I are so, so similar.

0:18.0

And even our aesthetic preferences are very similar.

0:22.0

But her idea of enough is different from my idea of enough.

0:26.0

She likes to go camping.

0:27.0

Yes.

0:28.0

You don't like pretending you're poor.

0:30.0

Right.

0:31.0

I didn't have to pretend for 18 years.

0:34.0

And another two years in my early 30s too.

0:38.0

No, I, I, I've identified was enough for me.

0:42.0

It's not about identifying what's enough for your partner.

0:46.0

Yeah.

0:47.0

It's, that's just a type of comparison.

0:49.0

Yeah.

0:50.0

It's interesting.

0:51.0

The saying identify enough makes me feel like,

0:56.0

and I know this is what you're saying, but it sounds like,

0:59.0

oh, I've identified enough, so let me write it out for you right now.

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