When Your Partner Doesn’t Need Anything - Jayson Gaddis and Ellen Boeder - 330
Relationship Coaching School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 16 February 2021
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
In this week’s podcast, my wife Ellen and I answer a common question:
What do we do with this person who is saying they don't need anything?
We posted a short video on this, and it received so many comments we thought we’d elaborate. Listen in as we unpack this question and give you tips on what to do.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | because you've chosen to be with me, could we make the argument that you actually do need some stuff? |
| 0:05.2 | Otherwise, why are we together? |
| 0:07.2 | If you really don't need anything, it doesn't seem like there's a point to be in a relationship with me. Welcome to the Relationship School Podcast. I'm Ellen Bader and I'm here with your |
| 0:37.2 | host. Jason Gatis, what's up? Hi honey. Hi. Hi. |
| 0:40.1 | Hi. I got Ellen back and we're going to talk about some classic dynamics. |
| 0:47.3 | Yep. |
| 0:47.4 | Dernams as we call them in a relationship. |
| 0:51.4 | And we put a post out on Instagram a while back. |
| 0:54.8 | Thanks everybody for responding. |
| 0:57.3 | Yeah. |
| 0:58.3 | And the post was called, which is basically the post, this post, |
| 1:01.8 | this podcast. When you're with a partner who claims |
| 1:03.8 | they don't need anything and we want to unpack that a little bit what's going |
| 1:08.7 | on there and what to do about it. You know you might be that person it's like I don't need anything I'm fine or you're with someone |
| 1:15.0 | chances are because you're listening here you're probably with someone who's doesn't |
| 1:18.7 | need to listen to this podcast and they don't need you it right? |
| 1:23.0 | Yep and you're the one maybe who has a lot that you want to talk about or |
| 1:29.0 | work through or address in the relationship and so here you are. |
| 1:34.0 | Yeah. |
| 1:35.0 | Yeah, so what is going on when you're with someone who claims they don't need anything |
| 1:42.0 | and they might actually say that directly to you no I don't need anything I'm fine or it just might be the way they act |
| 1:50.5 | sort of gives the impression that they don't need anything. |
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