When Your Partner Becomes Complacent In Your Relationship

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 5 August 2021

⏱️ 15 minutes

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What you should do if your partner becomes complacent in your relationship, lets themselves go and doesn’t make an effort.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter.
0:04.0	And the topic of today's newsletter is when your partner becomes complacent in your relationship.
0:11.0	So I had an email and a video newsletter I did the other day where the person that wrote in
0:17.0	had admittedly become complacent in their relationship and obviously the consequences that goes along with it.
0:23.8	So this particular guy, he admits that he did get complacent, but so did his wife,
0:29.4	and he came to recognize that he's been making a lot of effort for a lot of years, and he's not getting much back.
0:35.6	And so he basically kind of came to the epiphany that he
0:38.5	become a people pleaser. And on top of that, she seems to have a drinking problem and she's
0:45.0	complacent and makes no effort and he's done everything he can to try to get her to make a mutual
0:50.6	effort. And so he obviously wants my opinion, because the reality is whoever is writing
0:55.8	the email into me is the person that I'm talking to, because that's the, because if somebody's
1:01.3	open to help, they're open to participating in their own rescue, I can help them. But if one person's
1:08.1	willing to put in the effort, but the other person is not, there's
1:12.9	nothing you can do about that. You can be the best boyfriend, best husband in the world, the best
1:17.5	guy, but if the other person is not making a mutual effort, it doesn't matter. So that's kind of
1:24.7	the situation where this particular guy is at.
1:31.8	And in addition to that, there's some other things that she's doing, which we'll get to,
1:34.7	which are just simply not good.
1:38.7	So I got a quote that I wrote, and then we'll go through his email.
1:45.3	And the quote says, all relationships require the continuous mutual effort of all parties involved to make them thrive when one or both people no longer value the relationship and
1:50.7	don't make an effort to make it work it cannot survive just like a garden that is
1:56.2	not tended to properly will become overgrown with weeds and die, so do intimate relationships.
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