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I remember a time when one of my children was expressing the essence of this phrase, I'm just not good

enough. I think all of us struggle with this, but if you're a parent, what do you do when that

question or that feeling arises in your child? I'm John Fuller, along with Dr. Danny who heads up

the focus on the family parenting department. Danny, I think, as I said, this is something we all struggle with, but how do we handle

this as a parent?

Well, it's really about being present with your kids and listening, validating the fact that

it's so easy to compare ourselves with other people.

And in that comparison, usually we see all the things we don't have in that person, especially

if we're in a place of self-doubt or insecurity.

And I remember my daughter and my son having moments of wrestling with, am I enough when

they were comparing themselves with certain kids that were, certain classmates, really,

that were successful in certain areas that they wanted certain classmates, really, that were successful

in certain areas that they wanted to be successful at. So with my son, it was basketball.

He had certain moments of comparison there. They weren't long lasting, but it was important for me

to stop and listen to that and not say, ah, don't compare yourself. It was just, why do you think

you're comparing yourself to him?

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