When You've Been Hurt by Church [295]
Flying Free
Natalie Hoffman
4.9 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 1 October 2024
⏱️ 67 minutes
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Summary
Aimee Byrd, a well-loved guest of the Flying Free Podcast, is back again to tell us the story behind her newest book, The Hope in Our Scars. It’s not a pretty present of a book, wrapped in neat paper and topped with a bow. It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s full of beauty, and that’s exactly what this conversation is as well.
Aimee went through some unfathomable spiritual abuse and says, “That's what led me to write The Hope in Our Scars because I did find Christ intimately present with me through this.” We hope you’ll be able to find hope and Christ in this conversation, too.
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Related Resources:
- You can find Aimee on X, Threads, and Facebook.
- Go listen to my first interview with Aimee, “We Need a Sexual Reformation in the Church.”
- I highly encourage you to check out Aimee's incredible books, including The Hope in Our Scars, The Sexual Reformation, Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, Why Can’t We Be Friends?, No Little Women, Theological Fitness, and Housewife Theologian.
- My newest book, All the Scary Little Gods, is a spiritual memoir about healing from religious trauma and toxic programming.
- Are you wondering what is happening inside your own painful and confusing marriage? I wrote another book just for you called Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse.
- Flying Free is my online membership program designed for Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages. Whether you want to stay in your marriage or leave, we want to equip and support you through this program.
- Flying Higher is my online membership program for divorced Christian women. Come rebuild your life after divorce with women just like you.
Aimee Byrd is a former coffee cafe owner who now uses her conversational barista skills as a writer and speaker. Her latest books blend contemplative thought with biblical theology. Aimee is the author of several books including The Hope in Our Scars, The Sexual Reformation, Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, Why Can’t We Be Friends?, No Little Women, Theological Fitness, and Housewife Theologian. Looking for the beauty and wonder in theology—learning about God—and spiritual formation, Aimee writes about the things she hoped to talk about in church. In this quest, she’s found many others who’ve been disillusioned by the church but are still looking for what’s real, beautiful, true, and good. It’s often not where we think it is.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now.com and you're listening to the |
| 0:09.3 | Flying Free Podcast, a support resource for women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden |
| 0:16.4 | emotional and spiritual abuse. Welcome to episode 295 of the Flying Free Podcast. |
| 0:27.0 | Today we have a guest that we've actually had on the show before. |
| 0:30.8 | Amy Bird, Amy was a guest on episode 179 where we talked about her new book at that time called the |
| 0:38.7 | Sexual Reformation and I will put a link to that in the show notes. |
| 0:43.0 | But Amy has actually written so many books and I'm just going to go through some of them. |
| 0:48.0 | Well, I'll go through all of them right now and we'll put links to all of these books in the show notes, |
| 0:52.0 | but she's written and I didn't |
| 0:53.7 | realize Amy that you had written so many books but I was going on Amazon like oh my |
| 0:58.0 | gosh you've been busy she wrote recovering from biblical manhood and womanhood, |
| 1:03.8 | which I think is, that looked like maybe your biggest book. |
| 1:07.4 | Did that get the biggest reaction? |
| 1:08.8 | It's also my most controversial book, |
| 1:11.4 | so you know how that goes? |
| 1:13.4 | You know, isn't that the truth? |
| 1:15.0 | Like if you bring up a controversial topic, then everyone wants to hear what you have to say about. |
| 1:18.7 | And I really didn't think it would be as controversial as it was. So it's very interesting. |
| 1:23.2 | I think the title is very provocative because it's, yeah. |
| 1:27.1 | So if you're listening and you don't know why the title is provocative, |
| 1:30.1 | we're not gonna get into it right now, |
| 1:31.6 | but some of you will be like oh yeah. |
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