Hey guys, welcome back. Thanks for joining me this week. This week we're going to get into how long does it really take to get over this person.

So if you're dealing with someone who's narcissistic, you're going through divorce, you're going through a breakup, you will completely understand and get it that this is not a normal relationship.

This is not like anything that you've ever dealt with before.

And unless you're really talking to someone who has walked in these shoes and understands what

it is that you're going through. Most people don't really understand

what it is that you feel, what you're struggling with, and how this all kind of plays out,

whether you are going through a divorce, whether it is just a breakup, whether you're trying

to co-parent, whether you own a business with someone. Most people don't really understand

unless they've kind of walked a mile in these shoes. And most people

don't want to walk a mile in these shoes. But so let's start from the beginning. I think the first

thing that we haven't understand is, again, this is not a normal relationship. This was actually a

toxic relationship. So this goes beyond just being two people who are a little unhealthy and, you know, they decide that they don't

love each other anymore or maybe one person decides that they no longer want to be with them.

And it's like one of those like normal breakups.

And like even under the best of circumstances, a normal breakup is really hard to go through.

Let's top like let's top on that this is actually a really toxic

relationship, that it was very unhealthy, that it was filled with a lot of trauma bonding, a lot

of unhealed wounds on both of your parts, but we're not really going to focus on that person.

We're just going to focus on you. Now, it is not impossible to get over this person,

but I will say it definitely takes probably more time than the average breakup and detachment

that you will go through because there's so much, there's so many wounds and there's so much

stuff behind this relationship that other relationships probably wouldn't have had, at least not

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