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Keep the Heart

When You Can't Find the Bed of Roses

Keep the Heart

Francie Taylor

Religion & Spirituality:christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9632 Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2026

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to an unusual episode on Keep the Heart. This episode, "When You Can't Find the Bed of Roses," was inspired by an email from a disillusioned letter writer.  This young woman who wrote the email made this statement: “I feel like I was told before marriage, growing up, in my teens, and as a young adult, that living the Christian life is wonderful, and a bed of roses.” The key phrase in her statement is this: “I feel like…” Feelings are not the same as facts, and there are times when what we hear and how we perceive it are not the same. I am grateful that this writer did not say, “Someone told me that the Christian life would be a bed of roses.” Still, somehow this young woman got a faulty impression. This episode is dedicated to the young woman who sent the email, and anyone else who has discovered that the Christian life is not what you thought it would be. You may want to grab your journal to jot some notes. The email is being used as the basis for this episode with permission, and the letter writer remains anonymous. You may hear some things that you've been wondering about as well.  VISIT THE SHOP AT KEEP THE HEART FOR BOOKS, BIBLE STUDIES & MORE! Support this podcast with a donation HERE Apply: Living What We Learn--31-Day Devotional by Francie Taylor Ponder the Path: A 31-Day Devotional by Francie Taylor FOR COUPLES: Rough Patches: Temporary Marital Tensions by Francie Taylor BIBLE STUDY GROUPS: ICU: In Christ Unconditionally-Heart Conditions What Do I Have to Lose: A 50-Day Devotional (Book Two) by Janice Wolfe From Overwhelmed to Overcomer by Natalie Raynes Blanton Herbs for the Heart: A Study of James by Kathy Ashley Follow Keep the Heart on Instagram Like Keep the Heart on Facebook

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A young wife and mom wrote to me recently and made this statement.

0:03.9

Here's what she said.

0:05.2

I feel like I was told before marriage growing up in my teens and as a young adult

0:10.1

that living the Christian life is wonderful and a bed of roses.

0:15.1

Now the key phrase in her statement is this, I feel like.

0:20.1

Feelings are not the same as facts, and there are times when

0:23.9

what we hear and how we perceive it are not the same. I am grateful that this writer did not say

0:31.2

someone told me the Christian life would be a bed of roses. She didn't say that. Still, somehow this young woman got a faulty impression.

0:40.8

This episode is dedicated to the young woman who sent the email and to anyone else who has

0:46.5

discovered that the Christian life is not what you thought it would be.

1:01.4

Welcome to Keep the Heart podcast with Francie Taylor. Francy is an author, teacher, and conference speaker known for sharing biblical insights that are practical and inspiring. Now back to

1:09.2

today's valuable study. The email started like this. Dear Mrs. Taylor,

1:20.1

I don't think you would know me or be able to pick me out of a crowd, but I've heard you speak at

1:25.3

probably six to eight different conferences in the past 12 years or so.

1:29.8

But I need counsel, and I want someone far enough away but that still loves Jesus.

1:35.6

You seem to have the life that I want. You were a wife and a mama. You were in ministry.

1:42.2

You have the joy of the Lord, but I want to know, is it true?

1:47.3

Now, before I get into more of this email from the letter writer, I want to answer that last

1:52.7

question where she said, is it true? I'm assuming what she meant by that is, when I heard you

1:58.6

speaking up there on those platforms, all those different times,

2:01.9

was that real? Or do you just make that up? And I bet they wonder that. I bet people wonder that

2:09.2

about a lot of speakers. You've been to conferences, sister friends, and you've seen speakers

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