When You Ask a Narcissist To Get Back Together
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 15 September 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
This video discusses what a narcissist thinks when you ask to get back together after a break up. Navigating narcissism often means understanding their thought processes during break ups and the importance of no contact. This self-development video will help you avoid falling back into a toxic relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | So what happens when you ask a narcissist to get back with you? |
| 0:04.0 | Like what happens when you just dig into it when you are done with a narcissist? |
| 0:08.0 | The relationship is over and then you reach back out to them and ask them to be back with you. |
| 0:14.0 | What happens? What goes on in the mind of a narcissist, y'all? |
| 0:18.0 | That's what we're talking about today. |
| 0:20.0 | Of course, if you knew here, I'm Lee Hammack, diagnosed narcissist myself, and let's hop right into it, y'all that's what we're talking about today the course if you knew here i'm |
| 0:20.9 | le hammock diagnosed narcissists myself and let's hop right into it y'all first off everybody's situation |
| 0:27.0 | is different and this is not this video is not being put out there for me to judge anybody or make |
| 0:31.5 | anybody feel judged i'm just give you the perspective of what goes on in the mind of a narcissist |
| 0:35.7 | if you reach out to me asking me to be back with me got it good first off narcissistic people love to be chased |
| 0:45.2 | hey not all of them of course i don't speak in absolutes but most narcissists love it when you |
| 0:50.7 | chase after them when you are the when you are pursuer, a lot of narcissists love that. |
| 0:55.9 | Right. |
| 0:57.0 | So if we break up and most times when you break up by the narcissist or a toxic person, |
| 1:03.4 | they've done something horrible to you, right? |
| 1:05.4 | Like you're not breaking up with them for no reason. |
| 1:07.0 | Typically they've done something horrible to you and you're breaking up with them because of that. |
| 1:29.0 | Now when the relationship ends and then you decide to reach out to me, you got to be prepared for what comes next. You know what I mean? You got to be, hey, I'm just, I'm not saying, I'm just saying, if you reach out to me after the breakup, asking me to come back to you, asking me to get this, let's talk again, let's get back together, let's make things work. |
| 1:31.1 | If you do that, you are saying that you are okay with everything that I have done. |
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