When to Stay or Leave + True Love - Annie Lalla - 499
Relationship School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 14 May 2024
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
IN THIS EPISODE, You will learn:
- To see your partner as a sacred mirror and sanctuary for the growing your greatest actualized self
- The true characteristics of a long-term partnership
- How your partnership is the optimal container for complete transformation of yourself into the highest possible version imaginable
- How to fall in love and why this is more important than being married
- How to take radical responsibility for being loved in every moment of your life
- How to actually get your needs/wants met in a partnership
- How to know if conflict in your relationship is driving you toward or away from more magnificence
There’s a ton in this episode so dive in and go slow.
And, Here’s a great question from Annie to ask yourself if you are trying to decide to stay or leave:
Is the person I’m being called to become by what my partner’s asking me to become (if you take on the growth-development framework), will you become a more extraordinary version of yourself? If who they are asking you to become is a constricted, small, tight version of you, then this is probably not the person you want to be with.
However, if you identify as the smaller version of you, then, you are going to hear your partner’s feedback as criticism and blame and might make them wrong in the process. So, pay attention to these finer points.
Timestamps:
- 1:47 - What are we getting into when we say yes to long-term relationships?
- 6:04 - Becoming the best version of yourself
- 9:49 - Annie's story
- 16:48 - Taking responsibility when we don't feel loved
- 21:35 - Getting out of your victimhood
- 30:34 - When to leave
Links:
- Annie Lalla – Love Coach for Singles & Couples
- Apply to Relationship Coach Training
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey listeners welcome to the relationship school podcast. Thanks for tuning into the show. |
| 0:04.4 | This week's episode is a re-release of an older episode that our listeners loved. We hope you dig it. |
| 0:10.1 | Relationship is the one domain in our life where our darkest most ancient traumas, our wounds, our crazies, our uglies come out. Hey Jason Gatis here. Welcome to the Relationship School |
| 0:28.1 | podcast. This show focuses on human behavior, psychology, and |
| 0:31.7 | relationships. It's for people who are into, and relationships. |
| 0:32.8 | It's for people who are into growth and development. |
| 0:34.7 | It's for people who wrestle with the paradox of self-acceptance and self-mastery. |
| 0:40.0 | If you want to gain more self-awareness, have a better relationship with yourself and more fulfilling |
| 0:43.9 | relationships with others, this show is for you. |
| 0:47.3 | It's my belief and my experience that your life satisfaction, your health and well-being, and your |
| 0:52.0 | longevity will be determined by how much |
| 0:54.1 | confidence you have in your most important relationships including the one |
| 0:58.0 | with yourself. Okay everybody I'm really psyched today because I have my friend Annie Lala. She is a cartographer of love and why I dig this |
| 1:10.4 | woman is because her and I kind of jive and vibrate at the same level around |
| 1:16.7 | relationships and intimacy. |
| 1:18.2 | She sees relationship, at least my experience of her, is she really is serious about intimacy in |
| 1:25.9 | marriage and helping people learn what love really means and how to show up in a |
| 1:30.6 | partnership and so much of it her message is about taking responsibility. |
| 1:35.0 | So I'm really excited to have the love coach and the cartographer of love |
| 1:41.0 | and my friend Annie here. |
| 1:42.0 | Welcome Annie. |
| 1:43.0 | Thank you so much, Jason. |
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