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Calm it Down

When They Don’t Love You Back (Rebroadcast)

Calm it Down

Chad Lawson

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8678 Ratings

🗓️ 28 January 2025

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

Wuv, Twue, Wuv. No, today’s episode isn’t about one of the greatest films ever made (The Princess Bride) but something I’m certain we’ve all experienced at least once in our life. Unrequited love. That ‘I like them but they haven’t even noticed I’m in the same room’ kinda thing.  Chasing or loving someone that doesn’t share the same warm & fuzzies is hard. Brutally hard, emotionally. And while we’ve all been there before, it still feels like ‘you’re the only one’. Today, we talk about fishing (yup), our emotions and what to do when you toss the ball but it’s never caught, much less thrown back.   Grab a seat and let’s find some healing as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Near my house is a small creek, nothing grandiose, just a simple creek.

0:07.0

One that I never imagined would sustain fish.

0:12.0

But interestingly enough, I ate my words when one of my sons took a fishing pole down to the creek one day.

0:20.0

Well, I said, I had no idea as he reeled in a tiny

0:26.8

chubfish. I stand corrected. He and a neighborhood friend had been out there for a while, and even

0:33.6

though my son had caught one, his friend, just kept catching them one after the other.

0:40.6

Every time he dropped the line into the water, it was as if he was like this fish whisperer or something.

0:49.8

After some time, let's be honest, lots of time, my son grew impatient and his lack of

0:58.1

fish whispering ability. Come on, he would say. Why won't they bite? I've tried different bait.

1:05.5

I've tried different hooks, different spots, you name it. Nothing as he begins to get slightly angry, but not even a nibble.

1:16.1

Didn't make a difference.

1:18.0

Full transparency, I am no fisherman.

1:20.6

Nothing opposed to it.

1:21.8

I've done some deep sea fishing a few times, and it was incredible.

1:26.6

But I've never been one to have the capacity to simply sit and wait and wait and

1:32.4

wait some more, never knowing that the time was well spent or not.

1:38.4

And yes, I understand how that doesn't really fit the narrative of this podcast.

1:44.3

If there's anything I should be great at doing,

1:46.9

at sitting mindfully, embracing the absence,

1:50.7

which I'm actually really good at doing,

1:53.4

just not when it comes to fishing.

1:55.7

But seeing my son become more and more frustrated

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