The overwhelmed brain is about navigating the difficulties of life.

All the challenges that come along that make you wonder why life has to be so difficult sometimes.

I agree. Why? Why? And my other podcast, Love and Abuse over at love and abuse

over at love and abuse.com helps you navigate the difficult relationship. Listen to

the one that works for you or listen to both and then call me in the morning.

Welcome to the overwhelmed brain where you'll learn to make decisions that are right for you

so that you can create the life you want now.

Hello, this is Paul Kolyani and I am here to help you learn to deal with difficult people

and tackle life's challenges without compromising who you are.

This show consists of my personal opinions and is meant for informational purposes only always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being

All right. Let's talk about a relationship issue. Why not?

Somebody wrote to me and asked if they made a mistake by leaving a person that they were with

this person wrote I recently ended their short-term relationship about two months with someone

whose partner or ex-partner cheated on him, and they also have a kid together.

She said, he treated me wonderfully validating my feelings and creating a space for me to express myself.

He had only been out of this long-term relationship for a couple months when we met.

In the beginning he said he was never going back because of what she did to him.

And while he's with me he returned to their house that they had together and got his belongings.

He went multiple times, which I took as excuses to see her.

He told me that he reflected on what he did to contribute to the downfall of their relationship,

saying that he should have been more aware and responsive to her feelings and communicated better.

We went out with one of his friends one night who pulled me aside and said this about my boyfriend.

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