When the new person in your life still has feelings for their ex

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni

Therapy, Emotions, Sad, Health, Mental Health, Personal, Abuse, Anxiety, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Psychological, Self-improvement, Mind, Stress, Emotional, Anger, Philosophy, Divorce, Psychology, Addiction, Happiness, Happy, Development, Thinking, Success, Education, Frustration, Sadness, Manipulation, Resistance, Brain, Depression, Overwhelm, Mental

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🗓️ 3 March 2024

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

What happens when you fall for someone who might still have feelings for the person they were with? Is it a relationship that can survive? Or will the fear of them returning to the person they cared about before you be too much for you to keep it going?

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0:00.0	The overwhelmed brain is about navigating the difficulties of life.
0:04.0	All the challenges that come along that make you wonder why life has to be so difficult sometimes.
0:10.0	I agree. Why? Why? And my other podcast, Love and Abuse over at love and abuse
0:16.7	over at love and abuse.com helps you navigate the difficult relationship. Listen to
0:20.6	the one that works for you or listen to both and then call me in the morning.
0:23.8	Welcome to the overwhelmed brain where you'll learn to make decisions that are right for you
0:28.5	so that you can create the life you want now.
0:31.6	Hello, this is Paul Kolyani and I am here to help you learn to deal with difficult people
0:36.6	and tackle life's challenges without compromising who you are.
0:40.5	This show consists of my personal opinions and is meant for informational purposes only always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being
0:47.6	All right. Let's talk about a relationship issue. Why not?
0:53.4	Somebody wrote to me and asked if they made a mistake by leaving a person that they were with
1:00.1	this person wrote I recently ended their short-term relationship about two months with someone
1:05.5	whose partner or ex-partner cheated on him, and they also have a kid together.
1:10.9	She said, he treated me wonderfully validating my feelings and creating a space for me to express myself.
1:16.0	He had only been out of this long-term relationship for a couple months when we met.
1:20.0	In the beginning he said he was never going back because of what she did to him.
1:25.0	And while he's with me he returned to their house that they had together and got his belongings.
1:31.0	He went multiple times, which I took as excuses to see her.
1:36.1	He told me that he reflected on what he did to contribute to the downfall of their relationship,
1:41.0	saying that he should have been more aware and responsive to her feelings and communicated better.
1:46.0	We went out with one of his friends one night who pulled me aside and said this about my boyfriend.
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