When Self-Love Becomes Too Much

A Gay and A NonGay

W!ZARD Studios

Mental Health, Sexuality, Comedy, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 632 Ratings

🗓️ 29 October 2025

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

James and Dan are back with another chaotic, hilarious episode of A Gay and A NonGay! This week, Dan’s lost his phone — and apparently his sanity — leading to a deep dive into how impossible modern life is without one (and how long James can last without rolling his eyes). From there, the pair spiral into a debate about narcissism — is it always a bad thing, or can a little self-love actually be healthy? James insists it’s a green flag, Dan isn’t so sure, and somewhere between poppers, entitlement, and empathy, they try to work out what the line really is between confidence and arrogance. Follow A Gay & A NonGay TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@gaynongay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠gaynongay.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠us@gaynongay.com⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hi, welcome to the podcast.
0:07.8	It's a gay and non-gay with me, Dan Hudson.
0:10.3	I'm non-gay and he's James.
0:13.0	Hi.
0:13.7	I did a James.
0:15.1	What do you mean?
0:15.8	What do you think that could be?
0:17.5	You fucked a bloke? No.
0:18.3	You fingered a bloke.
0:19.5	No.
0:20.6	It's not a sex thing, obviously. Is it a gay thing? No, it's just a James thing. You had a martini. I don't believe so. You finally decided to watch Frozen. I have watched Frozen. Oh, okay. It's good film. It's great. Frozen, too? No You decided to, I don't know, you're now wearing jock straps?
0:42.3	No.
0:43.3	You, you've sniffed some poppers?
0:47.3	No.
0:48.3	You duched?
0:49.3	No.
0:50.3	You're cleaning your bum?
0:51.3	No.
0:52.3	You have decided to make your voice slightly higher.
0:57.7	No.
0:58.2	Hi.
0:59.0	No.
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