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The Longest Shortest Time

When Mom Says Oy! And Dad Says ¡Ay!

The Longest Shortest Time

Hillary Frank | Realm

Kids & Family, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Parenting

4.74.2K Ratings

🗓️ 24 May 2017

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

What traditions should you pass down to your kids when you and your partner come from completely different cultures? And why does keeping those rituals alive even matter? The Mash-Up Americans help us navigate family life in hyphenated America. … Join LST+ for community and access to You Know What, another show in the Longest Shortest universe! Follow us on Instagram Website: longestshortesttime.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Every year, when spring time rolls around, there's this thing I like to do with my family.

0:11.8

I like to lead them in a reading of the ten plagues, you know, the punishments that God

0:17.1

delivers to Egypt to get the Pharaoh to free the Israelites from slavery.

0:21.4

Alright, so it goes like this.

0:23.3

We'll be sitting around the table and it goes call and respond style.

0:27.2

I go, blood, my family goes, blood.

0:30.7

I go frogs.

0:32.2

They go frogs.

0:33.8

Lice, lice, wild beasts, wild beasts.

0:39.6

And as is the custom, we each dip a finger in our wine glasses or grape juice and we make

0:44.5

little droplets on our plates as we recite each plague all the way down to killing of the

0:50.5

first born.

0:54.8

This of course is part of the Jewish Passover Seder ritual, except that we're not very religious

1:00.2

in my family, so we kind of speed through the ceremony to get to the ten plagues and

1:04.6

then we have dinner.

1:06.0

Still, I think this ritual reminds us of our heritage, like why we're even here alive

1:12.5

as Jews and how for generations people were trying to kill us, but we survived.

1:18.6

So, you know, let's eat.

1:22.2

Another tradition in my home is that we have tamales on Christmas Eve.

1:25.7

That's because my husband is Latino.

1:28.3

But my husband and I, we are not as close to our ethnic roots as our parents are.

1:33.1

And our daughter is one generation further removed than either of us.

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