When Life Falls Apart, Do This Instead

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Brendon Burchard

Education, Business, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.8 • 3.8K Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2025

⏱️ 15 minutes

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0:00.0	If you're dealing with the unexpected, crisis, challenge, upset, I know that you're doing two things.
0:07.8	You deny what you're seeing, and we diminish ourselves.
0:11.6	Instead of denying truth, you seek clarity and perspective.
0:20.6	If you're dealing with the unexpected crisis, challenge, upset, sudden emotion, deal falls through,
0:29.4	economy sucks, I know that you're doing two things, and we just have to talk about it to help
0:35.4	flip you a little bit on the coin. You're doing two things.
0:39.3	The first thing that you tend to do is you deny truth.
0:43.3	You deny what you're seeing.
0:46.3	The unexpected, you're in a state of denial, right?
0:51.3	You don't want to face it, so you deny it, you detach it, you don't want to face it so you deny it you detach it you don't engage it right you
0:58.1	pretend that that person didn't just lie to you you pretend that you didn't just feel that and so
1:04.5	you're just denying and when the unexpected happens we just deny it usually human conditions
1:10.5	because we're so pattern driven we, we deny it too long.
1:14.3	You denied all the signals too long that that partner, that spouse, was a jerk.
1:19.3	Right?
1:19.5	And then one day it came to a head, but you saw it, but you denied it.
1:22.8	We do that in our personal relationships and our businesses.
1:25.4	The second thing, though, that's even more poisonous to use some dramatic language with
1:30.7	you here today, the second thing that we do with the unexpected is we diminish ourselves.
1:38.8	So we deny the external reality and we diminish ourselves.
1:44.1	I suck. I'm not capable. Here I go again. I'm not worthy. I'm not good.
1:52.1	I'm an embarrassment. I'm a failure. And you take a change in the world and you diminish
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