So question for you if you could go back to your teenage years and I knew you then

But I was so much older and mature three years older, but you know at high school, you think you're you're not even ever gonna

Date somebody that much younger, but so go back to like 13 maybe 14 15 years old. Okay. There was no internet then

But if there was and you were gonna Google like a question

Like I got to get an answer to this. I'm just wondering what that question would be for you

I didn't grow up in Christian home, and so my first question especially at that age would have been

When am I ready or when is it okay to have sex?

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Well, it's interesting while you were sitting in bed last night, and I had my

Laptop out I googled that question

Because I called it I bet a lot of teenagers are asking that question. Yeah, so I just typed in which I was thinking later

This is gonna look weird on my history, but how can I know if I'm ready to have sex?

You want to hear the answer?

First thing came up and I did it four different times and every time this was the very first number one

Number one hit was deciding if you're ready to have sex is a big decision that's very personal

It's important to think it through and wait until you're sure you're ready

And then it goes on how do I know when I'm ready to have sex?

The sign of have sex is a big deal

It's important decision that only you can make a healthy sex life fits in with everything that you're you're about

Including your personal values your school career goals your emotional physical risk you're willing to take think about

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