All of us have blind spots so that you can grow.

See, when you identify what's wrong with you, then the word is a mirror.

James 1 says the word of God is a mirror.

And when God speaks his truth to you, then there's always something in the Word of God

that will allow you to stand in the mirror of the word, see yourself, and make the adjustments.

Hello, and thanks for being with us for today's Destin for Victory with Pastor Paul Shepard.

Well, we've got a real treat for you today, a great story from Pastor Paul's own life,

one that is sure to help you in your

own walk with Christ. It's a story of change, confrontation, hurt feelings, and a relationship

that could have been permanently damaged. That message is coming right up, but first, this

quick reminder, at our website, Pastor Paul.net, you can listen to Destin for Victory on demand. There are also

details there about how to download our free app or subscribe to the podcast. Again, the website

is pastor paul.com. Okay, let's get you to today's message from Pastor Paul when growth requires

change.

The Bible distinguishes appropriate anger from sinful anger.

Remember what Paul said in Ephesians for?

Be angry, but don't sin.

You say, well, what's the difference?

When you are appropriately angry, you can tell people how you feel, tell them how offended you are.

This is not the way I deserve to

be treated. When you said that to me, here's the way I felt. You can lay it out there, but your

goal is reconciliation. The reason why you're sharing the way you feel is because if I don't

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