When do I stop trying to date someone? - MONDAY MAILBAG - The JTrain Podcast w Jared Freid
The JTrain Podcast
Jared Freid
4.8 โข 4.8K Ratings
๐๏ธ 9 September 2024
โฑ๏ธ 30 minutes
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Summary
It's Monday AKA Mailbag Monday ๐ ๐ฉ In this episode of the JTrain podcast, Jared dives deep into a listener's dilemma about dealing with their best friend's misbehaving kids during a vacation. Jared offers a nuanced approach, advising the listener to separate opinions from facts, particularly when addressing behaviors like the "slam the door" game. He humorously reflects on how he might navigate such a situation as an outsider without kids, focusing on being inquisitive rather than accusatory. Jared emphasizes understanding the dynamics of different parenting styles and how, despite differing approaches, friendship remains strong as long as communication is open.
He also discusses how people often turn to clinical explanations as a defense mechanism when confronted about their kids' behavior. Jared shares how he'd handle the situation by asking questions like, "Do you play slam the door at home?" and suggests addressing the issue with humor and curiosity rather than judgment. This episode offers a mix of practical advice and laughs, reminding listeners that even in the trickiest situations, there's always a way to maintain the friendship.
Plus, Jared touches on the concept of "emotional masturbation," where people get ahead of themselves in relationships, trying to impress or avoid rejection by planning elaborate events. He explores how this can sometimes lead to frustration and shares his thoughts on managing expectations and social dynamics.
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Hop on the "JTrain" with comedian Jared Freid and his crew of pals, including YOU! Join us for an hour of laughs, gripes, and straight talk on modern love. Send in your questions, dish on the latest trends, and more to jtrainpodcast@gmail.com โ we'll tackle it all on air! It's a no-nonsense, fun journey where we escape reality for a bit, delivering quick laughs and razor-sharp insights into the wild world of life and love. Tune in every Monday.
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Jared Freid is a stand up comedian from Boston and who is currently based in New York City. Jared is known to give great dating advice and is all knowing of the Bachelor & Bachelorette nation! You can catch his latest comedy special on Netflix, โ37 & Singleโ, where Jared discusses dating app frustrations to awkward setups to breakup justifications. (For the record, Jaredโs mom thinks his body is โjust fine.โ) Besides regularly headlining and touring around the country, Jared hosts two podcasts called โThe JTrain Podcastโ and โU Up? Podcastโ with Jordana Abraham of Betches, where they discuss their takes on modern dating with issues ranging from apps to hookups to relationships. Check out more of his comedy and a live show today! ๐https://jaredfreid.com/
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| 0:00.0 | It's a mailbag munder. |
| 0:03.2 | Do-doo, you've got problems there. |
| 0:07.3 | I'm gonna help you from the comfort of my chair. |
| 0:11.2 | Here, eh, eh. of my chair hair it's a mail bag Monday |
| 0:20.8 | hello and |
| 0:21.6 | and welcome the J train podcast podcast this is J-Train Jared Freed |
| 0:25.3 | Comey Alive from the West Village Manhattan. That's right. It's a mailback |
| 0:29.2 | Monday every day we do J-Train Podcasts. can have it every day, every day of the week. |
| 0:34.0 | As long as you sign up for Patreon, Patreon.com, |
| 0:36.0 | slash Jared Free, that gets you the Friday episode, which is coffee with J-Train. |
| 0:40.0 | There's a long coffee with J-Train sitting for you if you haven't gotten to it yet. I love doing coffee with Jay Train, but I love a mail bag Monday. I got a couple emails in front of me. Personal announcements. I got shows that are coming up. This weekend I'm in Indianapolis. I haven't been in Indianapolis in a long time. I'm excited to come back. |
| 0:58.0 | It's a great club, helium, all that stuff. Austin, I'm coming there, Raleigh. We just added Des Moines, I think, to the calendar, |
| 1:05.6 | dania Beach, Batavia, Jaredfree.com for tickets. Also if you go to Jaredfree.com there are and you go to my tickets page which is on this |
| 1:14.7 | thing called punch up. Punch up is where a lot of comics are moving to with their |
| 1:20.5 | tickets because it's this guy I think from Facebook got into it where |
| 1:27.6 | he wanted to find out a way to like help comics you know let people know they were going to be in their town. So there is like you know there's a deal here. They you can put videos here. So I've put my pieces of the Ick show I did. I did the show where we did at the comedy seller, I had guests, people came |
| 1:46.9 | up to a microphone, told us they're dating Ix and we would riff with them and it was fun. So I have the whole |
| 1:52.0 | thing on video, it looks great. I have put three |
| 1:54.8 | clips on my punch-up page that in exchange for your email, you know this is kind of |
| 2:01.6 | how the world works. I want your email you know this is kind of how the the world works I want your |
| 2:03.8 | email so that and the whole you know the trust you have to give is that I'm not |
| 2:08.0 | going to abuse that privilege of having your email the much like other companies like I mean, the fact that I'm getting emails |
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