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Death, Sex & Money

When 'Daddy Dates' Pay The Bills

Death, Sex & Money

Slate Audio

Careers, Sexuality, Business, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 7.7K Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2018

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

A 22-year-old who calls herself a “professional sugar baby” explains why she goes on dates with much older men for money—and why the men don’t always think of her as a sex worker. Subscribe to our weekly email newsletter, if you haven't already. Every Wednesday we send out podcast listening recommendations, fascinating letters from our inbox and updates from the show. Sign up at deathsexmoney.org/newsletter. And follow the show on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram. Got a story to share? Email us any time at deathsexmoney@wnyc.org. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

The website is seeking arrangement and you're looking for an arrangement.

0:05.0

Like when they slip the money in your purse, like that's the arrangement.

0:09.0

This is death, sex and money.

0:14.7

I mean, they're hard you to do a job and then they try to kill you.

0:17.4

No, no.

0:18.1

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot,

0:21.8

pick my hands up for you, and need to talk about more.

0:25.0

This dude saw a chance to get paid and he took it.

0:27.5

Ain't nothing wrong with that.

0:28.5

I'm Anna Sailed.

0:36.7

A couple of months ago, we got an email from a 22 year old woman in Toronto. We're calling Lizzy. That's not her real name, but it is the name she uses on a website called

0:42.1

Seeking Arrangement. It's a dating site sort of. It describes

0:46.8

itself as a meeting place for mutually beneficial relationships. In practice, it mostly connects older men who have money with

0:55.6

attractive young women who need it. It's free for women to sign up, but you have to

1:01.0

put pictures up of your your body or your face. The men have to pay like

1:06.5

$80 a month to sign up but they don't have to have any pictures if they don't want.

1:11.5

And that kind of like perfectly describes the essence of an

1:15.6

arrangement. Like their money for our body. And seeking arrangement is not subtle about this dynamic.

1:25.0

The site calls the moneyed older men sugar daddies.

1:28.0

The young women are sugar babies.

1:31.0

Did you call them dates?

1:33.0

Yeah, I call them dates.

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