When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319

We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71

Comedy, Comedy Interviews, Society & Culture

4.7 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 13 April 2026

⏱️ 70 minutes

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This episode is philosophizing, listener! Chelsea Cutler is a singer, songwriter, producer, and one of your favorite queer musicians with over 3 billion global streams and worldwide tours, but today she’s in the apartment to take a tour through your BODY. In addition, we have the incredible comedian Emily Wilson filling in as co-host! We discuss queer identity, when one can claim that they’re gay, the power of music, and how queerness is, like, totally a dope space. Ashley found romance through Chelsea Cutler. Emily has a crush on Ashley. FOLLOW CHELSEA CUTLER: Listen to “Sorry I’m Obsessed With You” RIGHT NOW: https://chelseacutler.lnk.to/SORRY Videos and More: https://linktr.ee/chelseacutler Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chelseacutler/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chelseacutler Twitter: https://x.com/chelseacutler FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW EMILY WILSON @therealemilywilson See her live in Austin, TX: https://www.therealemilywilson.com/ Watch her special, “FIXED,” now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9LL4lM3fbk TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealemilywilson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealemilywilson/ PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/MoEMTkLqzKE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	I read an article that was kind of making an argument that like if you experience attraction
0:07.8	to men at all, that like you're like you're really just by and like with a preference
0:15.0	for women, but really only dated women.
0:17.6	So I was like, yeah, I think I'm like, probably gay.
0:20.2	And then I read that and I was like, fuck.
0:21.6	Like, I, like, that's not, you saying your gay is not cancelable.
0:26.0	I know.
0:26.4	I just get scared.
0:27.5	Like, am I, like, claiming like an identity that's not mine.
0:55.6	We. Weill, weal, weo, weo. Huge guest alert, listener. Huge. Chelsea Cutler is on the pod this week. So cool. Shout out to Allie, who made that happen to us.
0:59.5	Ali Colbert, thank you for coming through. Unfortunately, we couldn't get them together,
1:03.6	but don't worry. We're going to have Chelsea back for another episode with Allie. We're going to make that happen. This episode, I talk about how Chelsea's songs are a big part of me and Jen's early relationship story.
1:12.8	And Chelsea gets into the fear of labels.
1:17.3	What goes into labeling yourself?
1:19.5	Why do you pick one label over another?
1:21.7	What kind of attraction warrants picking a label?
1:25.1	You'll see, we get into it.
1:26.1	It's actually really a really fascinating
1:28.1	question that we cover. And we have Emily Wilson subbing in for Lizzie today. And it was great.
1:33.9	I had a great time. Let me know what you think of Emily on the pot. I love her.
1:39.2	And then, as always, patreon.com slash WHGS to get the uncut, the uncut version. Whoa, what kind of
1:47.7	crazy shit do we say in there? I don't even know. We get even crazier shit in the bonus episodes
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