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Dear Sugars

When Bad Things Happen

Dear Sugars

WBUR

Wbur, Advice, Steve Almond, Society & Culture, Cheryl Strayed, Sugar, Dear, Boston

4.55.9K Ratings

🗓️ 3 July 2017

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, the Sugars grapple with a difficult question — how do we make sense of the fact that very bad things can happen to people who have done nothing wrong? They discuss a letter from a visual artist who has just learned he is losing his sight, and another from a woman whose life has been transformed by her daughter's life-threatening condition.

Transcript

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0:00.0

The universe has good news for the lost, lonely, and heart sick.

0:09.9

Sugar is here, the both of us, speaking straight into your ears.

0:15.0

I'm Cheryl Strayed.

0:16.4

I'm Steve Almond.

0:17.7

This is Dear Sugar Radio.

0:19.9

Oh, dear song, won't you please?

0:27.6

Share some little sweet days with me.

0:34.6

I check my bellbytes every day.

0:43.3

Oh, and the sugar you see in my way.

0:49.3

Hi, Steve.

0:50.3

Hi, Cheryl.

0:51.3

How are you?

0:52.3

Well, I'm good, but I have to say that I went into a bit of a spiral

0:55.7

reading the letters that we're going to talk about this week. Yeah. A lot of the letters, I mean,

1:01.5

we get letters about all kinds of subjects from all kinds of people, and the sort of the common thing is

1:07.0

everybody's in some state of struggle, but often, I would say, the vast majority of the time,

1:12.1

it's a self-inflicted wound, or at least partially self-inflicted. That is people suffering from

1:17.6

decisions that they've made or want to make or can't make that somehow reside within their

1:23.5

locus of control. And there's something about that that's, of course, maddening, but there's also

1:28.6

the fact that you have some control over that. And the letters that we consider this week are really

1:33.1

chilling because they are about people who suffer misfortune. And those misfortunes are more

1:39.7

long-term and maybe even permanent. Yeah. But then the other part of it that really haunted me

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