off top. We're recording this on Marlita King Day. So on this holiday, I normally try to like do

some reading or something related to Dr. King and every year it always kind of uncovers something new

and the general like, I guess popular culture version of Marlita King is far off from the reality

of Friend of Mine that I grew up with probably my longest friend. We became friends at sixth grade. His

name is Brandon M Terry. He's like the foremost or one of the foremost Dr. King scholars. He's a

professor at Harvard now. And I listened to him on Ezra Klein show podcast this morning. It's like

an hour and a half. I would highly recommend you check it out. But the thing that stood out to me,

the one thing that I think I'm going to try to take from it is he talked a bunch about how

we spend a lot of time in logic when we're talking about arguments. We think that logic is the

most important thing and he pointed out some passages from Dr. King's writings that point out that

Dr. King was well aware of how much emotion plays into the way that we make our arguments and how

often we try to like humiliate the opposition because that signifies that we went we've won our

argument, but actually providing some room and understanding room for like graceful

defeat and dignity and appreciation for that person is always important if your actual goal is

to affect change and not to just win the argument. So me as a very emotional and boisterous type of

person who thoroughly enjoys dunking on people and winning, I'm going to try to do a little better

with that. When I have disagreements with people, I'm going to try to not try to win argument and

try to actually impact their opinion in some way. It's not going to work is it? Play the music!

This is the Dominique Foxworth Show. Okay, so I guess I will have to put my humility and to practice

right away because my guide deck was cooking all night long. It was pretty impressive. They tried a

bunch of different stuff against them. That first series was ugly, but I mean it tends to happen

sometimes. You're trying to feel out what the defense is going to do. And then he picked the part

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